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20 Warning Signs Of Co-Dependency –



20 Warning Signs Of Co-Dependency –

20 Warning Signs Of Co-Dependency –

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Co-Dependency is common in families with addiction and substance abuse. There are many degrees of co-dependency. The severity of the condition is variable, and the intensity of symptoms vary. Warning signs help you be aware of a relationship problem you need to address.

Not everyone experiencing the symptoms below suffers from codependency, however. These 20 questions may indicate an other type of family disfunction, but still signal that you may need help to start feeling better.

20 Warning Signs

  1. Do you keep quiet to avoid arguments?
  2. Are you always worried about others’ opinions of you?
  3. Have you ever lived with someone with an alcohol or drug problem?
  4. Have you ever lived with someone who hits or belittles you?
  5. Are the opinions of others more important than your own?
  6. Do you have difficulty adjusting to changes at work or home?
  7. When significant others spend time with friends, do you feel rejected?
  8. Do you doubt your ability to be who you want to be?
  9. Are you uncomfortable expressing your true feelings to others?
  10. Have you ever felt inadequate?
  11. Do you feel like a “bad person” when you make a mistake?
  12. Do you have difficulty taking compliments or gifts?
  13. When your child or spouse makes a mistake, do you feel humiliation?
  14. Do you think people in your life would go downhill without your constant efforts?
  15. Do you frequently wish someone could help you get things done?
  16. Is it difficult for you to talk to people in authority, such as the police or your boss?
  17. Are you confused about who you are or where you are going with your life?
  18. Do you have trouble saying “no” when asked for help?
  19. Is it difficult for you to ask for help?
  20. Do you have so many things going at once that you can’t do justice to any of them?

If you identify with several of these symptoms; are dissatisfied with yourself or your relationships; you should consider seeking professional help. Arrange for a diagnostic evaluation with a licensed physician or psychologist experienced in treating co-dependency. Or, check out to learn about co dependency in families with addiction.


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