4 Tips To Recover From A Narcissist
It’s Hard To Recover From A Narcissist So Make A Plan First and foremost, you are not crazy. Know that. When it comes time to recover from a narcissist, there’s confusion and shame because at some point you knew you were not being treated well. But confused and gaslighted, you didn’t know how to get […]
3 Mistakes Women Make In Relationships
Mistakes Women Make In Relationships: Top 3 Let me begin with that so we all know we’re on the same page. I’m not judging myself or anyone else. But, after making a few of these mistakes again, I took time to reflect on why it’s so easy to make these fumbles and how to avoid […]
8 Tips For Sober Travel:
Sober People Need To Make Sober Travel Plans Sober travel is easy when you know the tricks for relapse prevention and trigger avoidance. Lately, my travel has revolved more around work than vacations, but both present a clear and present danger for me and most sober people. When you are out of town, you don’t […]
Why You Have To Let Go Of Resentments
“Expectations are resentments waiting to happen” Have you ever heard that expression – because I’ve heard it over and over for twenty years in recovery. Resentments sound bad and they are bad. They’re destructive to your daily well-being and happiness and can increase anxiety, especially if you have anxiety. But, let’s back up. What is […]
How To Find Self Acceptance Today
Self Acceptance Is A Process But It Can And Should Be Done One of the hardest parts of my recovery was making peace with everything that happened when I was unwell from addiction or mental health issues. It was hard to accept the realities of the dysfunction in the family, the traumas, the heartbreaks, my […]
Don’t Leave Before The Miracle Happens
Miracles Like Recovery Don’t Happen On Our Timeline When I speak in recovery circles, the first thing I admit is that I am no one chip wonder. I didn’t get sober once, twice, or even three times. I have been getting sober for 24 years. I got a year, then lost eight. I went to […]