Why Family Gatherings Feel Unsafe

Why Family Gatherings Feel Unsafe Even When Nothing Is Wrong Do family gatherings feel unsafe to you–even when it seems like nothing is wrong? For example, you walk into a family gathering. Nobody is yelling, nobody is fighting. The food smells great, people are even smiling—but something feels off. Your body tightens and you feel […]
“Too Sensitive” Or Trying To Heal?

You’re Not “Too Sensitive” You’re the First Generation Trying to Heal If you’ve ever been called too sensitive, too emotional, overreactive, or “the dramatic one”—there’s a good chance you’re not any of those things. You might simply be part of the first generation willing to talk about emotions instead of burying them. The first generation […]
Tips For Holidays When Your Family Hates You

Tips To Manage The Holidays When Your Family Hates You It can be very uncomfortable managing the holidays when your family hates you because the holidays are “supposed to” revolve around family. Thus highlighting the fact that yours is a mess. But, here’s the truth, have no shame because you are not alone. Many people […]
The Thanksgiving Gratitude And Connection Activity

Thanksgiving Gratitude And Connection Activity Just a quick Thanksgiving gratitude and connection activity to use at your Thanksgiving Holiday to focus on the good and being together. Idea:Instead of just going around the table saying what you’re thankful for (which can be intimidating or shallow), this activity gently invites everyone to reflect, share, and connect […]
Thanksgiving On A Budget: Create Meaning, Not Mayhem

Thanksgiving On A Budget Does Not Have To Be A Bummer I have spent many a Thanksgiving on a budget, so I personally know everything that comes along with not wanting to (or not being able to) spend freely over the holidays. There’s shame with not being able to keep up with others, there’s self-pity […]
Tips For Dog Owners In Recovery

Dog Owners In Recovery May Need Guidance Dog owners like me need education on how to be the best dog parent ever. Years ago I was a ghostwriter for a dog trainer and learned many tricks of the dog trade that have come in handy over the years as a long-time dog owner. The reason […]