How To Stop The Compare And Despair Do you forget to focus on progress and lose yourself in compare and despair? I know better than to compare and despair. It’s a waste of time […]

The Habits Of Emotionally Healthy People Emotional Health Is Critical Because It Affects Everything Else Do you ever think about your emotional health? I didn’t until I became […]

How To Strengthen Your Emotional Health Your emotional health will affect everything else in your life Ever notice how easy is it to laugh off a bad moment when you’re in a good […]

Making sober friends is easier than you think if you know what to do

Want to know how you made sober friends in the old days? Pre-2007ish, if you wanted to make a sober friend, you only had a few options. If […]

It’s become clear to me that I have a phone addiction

I’ve been traveling and it’s made me realize a few very important things about my phone addiction. For one, I noticed that it’s not just social media, […]

If you know what to do about cravings, they’re not so bad

The first thing to know about cravings is that they are a normal part of quitting anything. While I’m writing about drug and alcohol cravings here, the […]

The Johnny Depp, Amber Heard trial proves what I’ve always believed – we’re all good and bad

May is Mental Health Awareness month. So, take a moment to consider how well you are and which self you are feeding. […]

Is there anyone who hasn’t seen the news about Johnny Depp and Amber Heard?

If so, here it is. The two were married briefly and are now embroiled in a very nasty lawsuit basically over who’s a bigger jerk. […]

People magazine’s cover story about Taylor Hawkins is called ‘A Rock Star’s Shocking Death’

Don’t get this twisted, I’m sad about Taylor Hawkins. It’s a terrible shame and I’m devastated for his family, as I […]

Self Acceptance and self esteem are necessary for long-lasting healthy recovery

If you think self acceptance isn’t important, you are incorrect on this one. For one to live a long, healthy, happy recovery […]

The epidemic of despair overdoses topped 100,000 this year. What can you do to save yourself

Despair overdoses is what I’m calling an unacceptable death rate that has more than doubled over the last few years. […]

The recent overdose of actor Michael K. Williams has adoring fans shaken to the core

I found out about the actor’s death on a call with a sober friend who was bereft. He was a huge fan and said he hadn’t been […]

I like to think I can always find hope in recovery but I’ve been at this a long time

Learning how to find hope early on is tough. Especially if addiction has caused you to be in circumstances that you’re not […]

What, a recovery lifestyle doesn’t sound like it would be good at warfare?

I beg to differ. A happy recovery lifestyle is the best defense you have against an addicted lifestyle.

First, before you judge, do […]

Don't Give Up Sobriety Takes Time To Love The key to sobriety is not giving up on the days you want to I did not want to get sober when I was 21. I went to rehab because I was killing […]

How to build self-esteem is on everyone’s mind so I have some thoughts

The core of feeling good about yourself, your relationships, your work life, your body, and everything else comes down to self-esteem. The […]