Finding the right stress relievers for your needs is more important now than ever before. What’s happening in your life? We can bet with a fair degree of certainty that you have some areas of worry, concern, anxiety or just want to feel okay as the pandemic persists, and so much of the world is in turmoil. Even if you have a job and a loved one, simply waking up in the morning can be super stressful. In the last few years everyday life has become about getting through every day as smoothly as possible. And we mean, without having a meltdown. Personally, I need stress relief every single day. If you’re in recovery, and not just from an addiction, you need some stress relief practices you can turn to when you feel anxious or overwhelmed. One tiny action can lift your mood. Here are some of my favorite stress relievers.
My #1 favorite stress reliever is exercise
Exercise will always lift your spirits. It gets your endorphins going and your blood flowing which bring in more oxygen that nourishes your brain. We can’t say enough about moving your body. It doesn’t matter how much or how little you do. Exercise gets you away from your workplace and gives you a break in your routine. Ride a bike, walk a mile. Do Tai Chi. Break a sweat immediately, or just do a little. If someone or something upsets me, I’m taking a walk outside so quickly you won’t even see my shadow. If I can do yoga or exercise, even better, but just getting those endorphins up is a cure-all for a lot. Need a great suggestion for yoga? Try this Youtube Channel.
#2 Breathing activities will calm your heart: Breathing a great stress reliever
Like meditation, I believe this is something that works best when you’ve had some guided training and practice. You know how when people have an anxiety attack they often hyperventilate? Well, deep breathing, or healthy breathing, will help regulate your heart rate and calm you down. Use an app like Calm or Headspace. If you don’t want to search for an app, you can just breath in for 4 counts, hold your breath for 4 counts and breathe out for 5 counts. Just see how soothing that is.
#3 Another top stress reliever (for me) is cooking for loved ones
This only works if you’re someone who feels comfortable in the kitchen. If that’s the case, cooking can be fabulous for stress relief. From giving yourself the assignment of finding a great recipe, to purchasing the ingredients, to food prep and cooking, to the finale of serving your masterpiece, the whole process can engage you and give your mind a little relief at the same time. And you get to eat, which is always a favorite stress reliever. You can substitute anything you love. Music is a great stress reliever. Quick naps are a an
#4. Animals/Nature are stress relievers because they bring perspective
Animals, and I mean pets, are proven to relieve stress and bring happiness. If you’re in recovery, you need a pet to love and who will love you back no matter how miserable you are. I’m very lucky, and I live by an incredible hiking trail in California. Whenever something upsets me, I grab the dog, and we hike up that mountain. Nature gives me the perspective and the quiet I need to remove myself from the situation for a moment, and a long walk with the dog allows us to connect and have a spiritual moment. I know a dog trainer who told me there’s nothing a dog loves more than to take a nice, long walk with their human in nature. When I see my dog prance up the mountain and look back at me with a grin, I know I’m doing something good for both of us, and it gives me a lift in that way too.
#5. Sharing with friends, family, and sponsors is connection you need for stress relief and wellbeing
No matter what’s going on, if you have someone you can call to talk about it, that is always a great solution. Call someone safe who can give you practical advice. Things are always worse in our heads and often friends, family or colleagues can help us find an easy solution!
To be clear, I do not suggest that you don’t call your sponsor, or go to meetings. Those things are essential if you’re a person who needs recovery group support, but the goal here in recovery is to create a world we can live in comfortably. To me, living comfortably means having tools I can use at any moment, for any reason. These days, stress relief is a necessity!
#6. Another go-to stress reliever for me is writing
This comes under finding or recovering a passion. Or just recovering. Journaling, working on an article, practicing ways to express myself better are all stress relievers for me and can be for you, too. Writing is a way to get your thoughts on paper, talk to people without getting in trouble. You write them letter but never send them. Works every time. Iust letting out how you feel will make you feel better You can improve your writing, or learn how to write on sites like myperfectpaper reviews. Go for it. Tell yourself how you feel so you can feel much better.
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